Dude?

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Phillip Gawlowski

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Robert Dober wrote:
| On Sat, May 17, 2008 at 6:27 PM, Phillip Gawlowski
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|> Robert Dober wrote:
|> | Dear native speakers
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|> | I have been quite bothered with the usage of the word "dude" recently.
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|> A good translation of 'dude' would be 'Kumpel'. A synonym something like
|> 'buddy' or 'pal'.
|
| It was quite what I thought, although I would be honored to be called
| dude by someone I have posted with for years now I dislike the idea of
| being called Dude by someone whom I barely know.

Culture clash, really. The US (and especially California) are less
formal than Germany. Heck, English even dropped the 'thou', where as we
still have the 'Sie'. :)

As I've remarked else where: The US and German cultures are significant
enough to make the differences all the more pronounced.

(Really, when calling a call center, I'm on a first-name basis with the
call agents in the US. :p)

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Petite Abeille

I will put it this way, you should not call somebody dude unless you
have herded sheep with her ;). (Comes from a French idiomatic =20
sentence).

Cows, not sheep, i.e.:

"Avoir gard=E9 les vaches ensemble" or not...
 
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Robert Dober

Culture clash, really. The US (and especially California) are less
formal than Germany. Heck, English even dropped the 'thou', where as we
still have the 'Sie'. :)
Rather a generation clash, I used to life in the States and ind South
Africa about 20 to 15 years ago, dude was used between friends,
especially "Hey dude" with a big smile, I feel it is just too personal
;)
As I've remarked else where: The US and German cultures are significant
I am *not* German, I am only Austrian, as you might know we have some
culture clashes too ;)
enough to make the differences all the more pronounced.

(Really, when calling a call center, I'm on a first-name basis with the
call agents in the US. :p)
They better call me Sir, as I do (unless it's a lady ;).
Cheers
Robert
 
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Michael Guterl

[Note: parts of this message were removed to make it a legal post.]

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On May 17, 2008, at 2:40 PM, Robert Klemme wrote:

What is the sound of one duck typing?
An what does the dude[1] himself think of all this?

The dude abides. Seriously.

Michael Guterl
 
J

J. Cooper

To clarify, "dude" is not always used as a term for someone; it can be a
general expression, often meaning something like "whoa."

Dude! That was crazy.

(Similar to "Man! That was crazy!" -- that doesn't necessarily mean you
are calling someone "man".)

Perhaps it's a California thing :p
 
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Petite Abeille

You are the native speaker, but I know that my wife says "gard=E9 les
chevres ensemble", she is from Britany, maybe local differences?

Goats in Britany? Very unlikely. Something must have been lost in =20
translation then :)
 
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Robert Dober

Goats in Britany? Very unlikely. Something must have been lost in
translation then :)
I know this is completely OT now, but this is a very open community so
I dare to continue, after all it is interesting some people ;)
Goat was it, right, I knew that chevre !=3D sheep but goat did not
spring into mind.
Well that's what she says, you can be very surprised in languages,
especially in French.
To Rick: very interesting point I never visited the West Coast, maybe
dude has a different meaning over there. And I guess that you are
right
every Frenchwoman would understand "On n'a pas gard=E9 les x ensemble"
for a large set of x ;) especially in social context which we do not
have on the list.

Cheers
Robert


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Robert Klemme

On Sat, May 17, 2008 at 6:58 PM, Phillip Gawlowski

I am *not* German, I am only Austrian, as you might know we have some
culture clashes too ;)

Why "only"? Are you lacking something compared to us Germans (like
access to the sea or Deutsche Gemütlichkeit)? :)

Baba

robert
 
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Robert Dober

Why "only"? Are you lacking something compared to us Germans (like acces= s
to the sea or Deutsche Gem=FCtlichkeit)? :)

Baba

robert

Wow I wrote "only" there is no doubt that I feel inferior, I was not
aware of that, where is my Psy :-0
Well spotted Robert, and apologies in case this is read by fellow Austrians=
 
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John Maclean

What's wrong with "chap"?
:)

I know this is completely OT now, but this is a very open community so
I dare to continue, after all it is interesting some people ;)
Goat was it, right, I knew that chevre !=3D sheep but goat did not
spring into mind.
Well that's what she says, you can be very surprised in languages,
especially in French.
To Rick: very interesting point I never visited the West Coast, maybe
dude has a different meaning over there. And I guess that you are
right
every Frenchwoman would understand "On n'a pas gard=C3=A9 les x ensemble"
for a large set of x ;) especially in social context which we do not
have on the list.
=20
Cheers
Robert
=20
=20
=20
 
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Robert Dober

I am not a native speaker, but I think you really need to relax.

You might be right of course and I do not take that advice badly, at
the contrary :).
I had something else in mind too, the list itself, but I guess that I
can conclude from your remark that duding around is not a problem :)
I feel somhow sorry though as I really thought it was a word reserved
for close friends, but that is the rule of languages, they just
evolve....

Thx again.
R.
 
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DJ Jazzy Linefeed

You might be right of course and I do not take that advice badly, at
the contrary :).
I had something else in mind too, the list itself, but I guess that I
can conclude from your remark that duding around is not a problem :)
I feel somhow sorry though as I really thought it was a word reserved
for close friends, but that is the rule of languages, they just
evolve....

Thx again.
R.

It's all good, dude.
 
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Martin DeMello

Dear native speakers

I have been quite bothered with the usage of the word "dude" recently.
Not that I dislike the word itself but I feel it should be reserved to
friends using it in a quite informal context.
Am I wrong and do I have to adapt or is there some kind of agreement
with my POV?

A common usage, especially in a single-word sentence, is "You have
said something unexpected that I disagree with". The tone is neither
hostile nor intimate - it just says "I'm not picking a fight over
this; I just have a friendly disagreement with you".

martin
 

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