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Well, they're far from being amister.
Oh well, from that angle .... hm, how would you add "a-" to "Ms"
and come up with something with a suitable pronunciation? Sort of
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I think you would be well-advised to recognise that those who seek to
give offence will find ways of giving it, and will push any button until
they draw a reaction. The trick, when dealing with such people, is to
work out that they're idiots and then give their views all due weight -
i.e. none.
Oh sure.
But I think what bugs me is that these phrases are so much a part
of the language that apparently it doesn't even occur to most
people that there might be a problem with them. I've been told,
on at least one occasion, "you da man!" by someone who clearly
meant it as a compliment. So I'm not talking here about deliberate
attempts to offend.
I'll add that not all women seem to feel the way I do -- I asked
about the above-mentioned usage of "balls" in some other discussion
and got several responses from women saying "doesn't bother me".
As for feminism: I am opposed to any form of discrimination other than
on merit or character. Perhaps unfairly, I have developed a rather
negative view of feminism, as it seems to me from the (self-proclaimed)
feminists I have met that it is just as discriminatory as the evil it
seeks to address.
Yeah. I call myself a feminist partly because the label has
acquired so many negative connotations in recent years, especially
in the minds and language of people who seem to want to go back to
the Bad Old Days, and that ticks me off. But there are certainly a
lot of other self-proclaimed feminists who do seem to be advocating
something that's not much better than what they're opposing.
Your "I am opposed ...." sentence pretty much sums up my views.
Where would be a good newsgroup to continue this
discussion?
I have no idea! Once upon a time soc.feminism might have been good,
but it's been inactive for a long time. I think there are some alt.
groups where it would be topical, but the last time I checked out any
of those, they were dominated by more-heat-than-light flame wars.
Back to C:
Thanks, and I'll try to behave myself here and not continue the
off-topic discussion ....
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