santosh said:
CBFalconer said:
You have been on my PLONK list for some time, marked as
"insufferable and non-portable". [ ... ]
You even annotate your killfile entries!?
The amateur psychologist in me is fascinated by people who
purport to use "kill-files".
First, about 90% of all "PLONK"s announced on newsgroups
are imaginary in my experience. Most of the time, it actually
means that the "PLONK"er is now officially obsessed with
the person they allegedly "PLONK"ed, and will actually read
their messages much more closely than before.
Note carefully there is NO rational reason to ANNOUNCE
your "PLONK" in the first place. When asked about this odd
practice, serial "kill-filers" sometimes will mumble something
about sending a warning to others, but will usually evade the
question. It IS clear they derive some internal emotional
benefit from stating they have "kill-filed" somebody, even
though in most cases, they have done no such thing.
One of the fascinating behaviors was just demonstrated
here, where the person with the imaginary "kill-file" responds
to a post by the person they "kill-filed", requiring various
claims as to why they are reading the post. (One guy I
know continuously claims that his disks crash about every
three days, and he has to buy a new computer and so
loses his "kill-file"!) These messages invariably contain
a "warning" to the "PLONKEE" that their readable state
is temporary in nature and could be revoked at any time
for continued bad behavior. This is orthogonal to what
I call the "talking kill-file", where the "PLONK"er continuously
discusses the "PLONK"ee that they so publically claimed
was not worth reading.
Obviously, the individual who displays this behavior must
have generalized feelings of powerlessness, and like so
many is attempting to gain some feelings of importance
and power lacking in their "real life" by lashing out in this
peculiar manner at people on the Internet.