A. Sinan Unur said:
(e-mail address removed) wrote in @p79g2000cwp.googlegroups.com:
Well, John's standing in my eyes just went up several orders of
magnitude. I have known more than handful of people who chose the easy
way out when faced with much less devastating.
Thanks Sinan,
However the amount of emotional stuff people can handle differs from
person to person. The easy way out isn't certainly the easy way out. My
experience is that there can be times that there seems to be no choice
left but "out".
Also, those feelings that make one take "the easy way out" can be
extremely overwhelming and confusing. They can pop up every day, and stay
for hours. Not everybody can handle that, but IMO you can't call it an
easy way out. It's not like: my cat died, so I hang myself
A lot of what's inside people stays inside because its very hard to talk
about, and in the cases one shows a bit, there is always someone like the
OP who thinks you can stand above someone by digging a hole under his/her
feet.
Anyway, I am sure that rarely now and then things slip through, meaning
that I might overreact a bit. More in the past, but I am sure it happens.
I think that this makes us human
