primeattheark said:
Sorry, but *do* you know what Netiquette is?
Yes, only too well.
If, a person starts a new thread, which is either of little interest,
irrelevant or obvious, then I suggest that you do not send a reply and leave
it be.
If a person appears to have a problem either with knowing to (or how to)
use a search engine, or a problem with making it clear what their
original problem is, addressing this is always on topic. Likewise,
netiquette is always on-topic.
I may not be directly helping the guy by spoon feeding him whatever it
is that he wants to know (which is hard to tell from his vague
question), but I am ultimately helping him in other ways (see below).
And also, other people may be reading who may get something from this
exchange. Usenet is never just about the original poster and the replier
- others can benefit too.
Here's a little story to illustrate matters:
You're walking out in the sticks and you find a guy at his farm who
tells you that he is running out of food (although he doesn't even seem
to be making much of an effort to communicate clearly - he mumbles a
bit, but you realise that this is lazyness rather than the effects of
ill health etc., and forget about it, despite it being distracting).
Luckily, you have a few things with you. You have a sack with some food
in it, and you also have a hoe and a few other farming tools with you,
going spare. So which do you give him?
Options:
A) you give him the food, helping him to put off starvation a little
longer. What then? He has to wait for another well wisher to come along
and leave him some food. His survival this way is looking tenuous, and
he is relying on the good will of others who may or may not even turn up.
B) you give him the farming tools and maybe some advice on how to use
them. This empowers him - he becomes master of providing his own food.
He becomes more independent. Not only are other people in the world
putting less of their into food him, but one day he might even have a
good farm, and feed other people!
Do you propose the A) option for the original poster? Do you not think
B) is ultimately for the best?
If we can teach him something about asking a clearer question, or about
how to find the answer to the question for himself, everyone wins. He
wins, because he is empowered to help himself; and the newsgroup wins,
because there will be less vague/obviously web searchable questions
kicking about (from him, and perhaps from other readers who got
something from the exchange).
I am surprised by some of the comments in this page.
I'm not.
People should not get so personal over something so trivial. There are people
dying in the world you know.
Usenet can seem harsh sometimes. But this isn't personal. I am trying to
help this guy. It's constructive criticism.
Are you fairly new to usenet, btw?
Veterans of usenet tend to seem abrupt sometimes. It's not usually any
intended rudeness, just the way of things.
Either help or leave it be.
We *were* helping, as detailed above.
No offence meant (honest).
Rob
None taken! I hope that you can see that some people do have some
interest in helping this guy, even if it's not the help he (or you)
envisaged...