Joshua said:
I do not CARE what Arne wants. Arne can go hang himself for all I care,
especially given the extremely disrespectful way he's been treating me,
someone he hardly even knows, and that he's been that disrespectful from
the day he "met" me, without any provocation.
Arne has long since lost any right or reasonable expectation that I give
a crap what he wants.
Perhaps in the future he might be less of a brute with people, knowing
that it costs him down the line when later he wants something from someone.
However, googling his name in this group shows that he has a long and
sordid history of being nasty, brutish, and short-tempered with just
about everyone he disagrees with about pretty much any topic. He seems
to be incapable of learning that lesson or he probably already would
have done. Indeed, he seems to be incapable of disagreeing with a
person, regarding any topic, without a) thinking that that person is an
idiot and b) being publicly disrespectful towards that person. I don't
know why -- poor social skills, I suppose, a notorious occupational
hazard in the computer-programming profession.
Whatever its cause (or his excuse), though, his unpleasant attitude has
consequences, and one of those is that I don't give two puffs of vapor
from a busted car radiator what he wants. If he wants something he can
go do or buy or get it himself.
And the same applies to Lew, for similar reasons, and to you too.
Though you haven't been as nasty as Arne, you haven't been especially civil.
Hendrik is another matter -- when called on his rudeness towards me,
Hendrik apologized on at least one occasion, so I think he might be
redeemable. And googling Hendrik shows a recent instance of his being
rude to someone else, being called on it, and apologizing there too.
Hendrik is a good example for you three to try to emulate -- he seems to
have some of the same problems but he also seems to be willing to try to
improve his public behavior/attitude. That is more than I can presently
say for you three.